Where are the MEN?

from the Sensuous Heart
Where are the men?

More than a personal challenge, this question is a global outcry because I am quoting what a great many women have been asking Vajra and me for quite some time.

But I am making it a personal and a specific call:

* Where are the men with enough courage to surrender everything they thought and were told makes them men?
* Where are the men honest enough to ask their essential questions and forego the easy answers, curious enough to search for manhood beyond their fragile anatomy?
* Where are those few who are strong enough to bear the unbearable lightness of a masculinity referenced in reverence to feminine power and receptivity to life?
* Where are the sons and brothers and fathers, lovers, and friends, spiritual enough to trust themselves not to accept new age labels covering old paradigms as enlightenment?
* Where are those men, brave enough to abandon the alibi of skin-deep warrior bonding for the quest that promises nothing but life itself?

back to TOP
The list of these questions could be continued a very long time citing any variety of the same challenge:

* Give up barking up the wrong tree!
* Give up trying to do it right and instead listen to the ever-changing erogenous zones of life.
* Abandon the futile pursuit of vanishing accomplishments.

Because if you think you know what to do next, you're lost. Women are bored trying to make love to adult boys who do to them but never are with them. Women are bored with pseudo-enlightened men professing a "fear of commitment" or a "free spirit" or "being in the now" while in reality they fear having to be with rather than pursue woman. Because then they would have to face their fear the power of woman.

* We want to work with you, if you trust yourself enough to soften your defenses, old and new.
* We have something to offer you, if you are willing to leave with less than you came with.
* We invite you to dance with us if you can promise never to know the next move but to receive it.
back to TOP

The World needs you. The World needs men whose identity is not rooted in destructive, patriarchal righteousness but in true awe and reverence for the creative, unfolding dance of life.

We invite you to dance with us if you can promise never to know the next move. Never.

Come be with Her and be with us and open your life to
The Tantric Dance of Feminine Power.


We would appreciate hearing from you, your thoughts, expectations, hopes, fears. Tell us what would interest you in particular, and what you, personally, would expect, for example, from a week-long Tantric Initiation retreat for men?
back to TOP